Take Nothing For Granted

January 24th five years ago was a freezing Wednesday. I went down to the Lake on my lunch hour and snapped a few ice pics, some of which follow.

I went home after work and did my usual routine. I distinctly remember Chumley, who was a string guy, watch with great interest as I flossed my teeth that evening.

Not long after I had gone to bed, the blood clot in his heart let go and cut off the circulation to his lower body.

I will not go back in my memory, more than I already have, because that truly was a terrible, terrible night.

But it is a good reminder that life can turn in a split second, a reminder to us all not to take anything for granted, especially the lives of our loved ones or even our own lives. Because in an instant it all can be taken from us, leaving us bereft of a true gift.

My memories of Chumley are dim now, partly from the passing of the years and partly because I choose not to recall them vividly, especially those of that last night.

But the lesson remains.

Treasure your family and friends, fur and non-fur, always. Hold them close, and when the Fates take them from  you, let them go, knowing that even if this life is all there is, they remain with you, in your heart, for as long as you breathe.

Men and boughs break;
Praise life while you walk and wake;
It is only lent.


Universal Blessings, Light and Mercy to All Beings.

Comments

The Cat Guy said…
amen. gonna give an extra squeeze to everyone in the household today.
JC said…
So true. I'm sorry you lost Chumley like that. My Bella past away suddenly too. It's hard. I still cry when I see a labrador puppy.
Josie said…
Very true. It's a good reminder ((hugs))
ANGEL ABBYGRACE said…
There are only bandages that go over our hearts as they heal. One quick memory can trigger that bandage being ripped off and a flood of good and bad memories can be triggered. I am so sorry for your pain and loss.I hope that the good memories can help ease the bad ones. I'm glad you shared this with us today.

I fount this quote and I really like it so I wanted to share it with you...

"Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start".-Nido Qubein

Lets get started
xoxoxo
Clooney said…
Touching post Kim. Thinking of you today.
Old Kitty said…
Oh Kim!!! I do remember the first time I stumbled on your blog and read about Chumley and just cried and cried especially with the poem in his memorial page. What a soul mate! Bless his soul.

These pics just take on a different hue with Chumley's spirit forever embedded in them. Thanks for sharing them here.

I love the excerpt you quote here - says it all really. Treasure those whom you love now rather than after.

Big big hugs, Kim! Take care
x
Janet NZ said…
Thanks Kim. There's been another tragedy in my neck of the woods, and I really needed to hear this today.
XXXOOO
E. Smith said…
Please be kind to your heart and let the good memories of Chumley wrap its arms around you and bring you comfort.
Janet NZ said…
"Don't cry because it is over. Smile because it happened." Dr Seuss.

I just found this and thought of you. I love Dr Seuss XX
I'm so sorry, Kim. We all share your pain and know what you're going through because most of us have been there. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing him, but I'm having a mental martini toast to the beautiful Chumley.
such a beautiful reminder...thank you...we all need to be reminded of this now and again.

I am so sorry about Chumley, so handsome!

Your ice photos are incredible!!! They are like artwork, amazing!