A three week challenge

One of the inspirational articles I read recently suggested you could "retrain" your brain in part by keeping a gratitude journal and listing three original, non-repetitive things for which you're grateful, for three consecutive weeks.

Now, a gratitude journal (my "happys," I used to call them) isn't anything new to me, and we all know the benefits of practicing gratitude. So I took up the challenge on November 24th and have been going it faithfully for nine days now.

However, I'm finding it surprisingly difficult to come up with different things for which to be grateful on a daily basis.

Sure, the regulars are easy: health, paycheque (and/or job, if you enjoy your work), food, clothing, shelter, loved ones (two and/or four-legged)...that's all the "normal" stuff that the majority of us in our country have, albeit to varying degrees. But in my day-to-day life...That's harder, because I can't repeat myself. I get to write "cats" only once. Bus pass, coffee, microfibre thermal layers (lol), chocolate, lattés and so on, only once.

Would anyone else find this challenging, or are you already so filled with conscious gratitude that it would be easy and natural to do?

Image from SimpleReminders.com
I must add this, though. It's almost entirely dark in the afternoon now, when I get home from work. Yesterday, as I was walking up the short driveway, I looked up to my bedroom window and could just barely make out Nicki on the cat tree at the window, looking out. It filled me with such happiness, because I remember that Annie used to do that often, keep watch out. I'd wave up at her as I was coming home. Seeing Nicki up there somehow was a real gift and it lightened my heart.

Peace.

Comments

ANGEL ABBYGRACE said…
I remember how hard it was at first after I lost Abby because she always knew I was home because of the car coming into the garage. So she was sitting at the back door waiting. The other cats never took up that slack. Until Annabelle who is doing that more an d more. It is a very nice welcoming treat. Well more than a treat and it does fill the heart.
Kea said…
In truth, it brought me an absurd amount of happiness. It makes a difference when someone--some Being--anticipates and welcomes your arrival home, even if it is only to fill your food dish and give head butts and cuddles. :-)
Poppy Q said…
I guess Kim you have to consider some of the small stuff. Enjoying a tasty dinner, a good movie to watch, fluffy towels after a warm shower, a good book to read, a good nights sleep, warm slippers to put on.

Like you my life is same old same old most days and weeks, and I would love a lotto win to avoid going to work. Imagine the fun we could have then!!!

Julie and Poppy Q
xxx
BeadedTail said…
What a heart lifting sight seeing Nicki must have been! It sure made our hearts happy!
Angel Simba said…
I think I would find it challenging to come up with 3 NEW things each day for 3 weeks, but perhaps that is part of the purpose of the challenge - thinking hard about what you have to be grateful for.

Peace and love.
Rian said…
Well, Kim... you might not have been able to add Nikki to your gratitude list again, but you could certainly add the *cat tree* that put him where he could be seen as well as your *good eyesight* that allowed you to see him and your *love for him* which made you feel that stirring in your heart.
Too corny? Works for me...
Saku said…
I'd find it difficult to find three different things to be grateful for everyday too. Perhaps it's because I think of the big stuff, like a comfortable home, family, friends, etc. But in reality I think you nailed it when you noted how you felt when you saw Nicki in the window.

It's those moments when we feel content or relaxed or simply happy.

Well done to be nine days into the challenge!
Cats Herd You said…
It really is the little, everyday things. I think that's the real lesson of having to come up with so many different things you are grateful for, to make you stop and think about those little things and not just the big ones.
Anonymous said…
Well having a loved one waiting for you is certainly something to be thankful for. Not everyone has that. I am glad you do.
noodlecat said…
It's the small stuff that you never think twice about that you remember the most later on...

Noodle and crew
Katnip Lounge said…
I got in the habit of seizing little moments earlier this year, when I decided to make "content" my word for the year. The mindfulness of looking for nice things in every day DOES form a good habit...but I will have to see if I can do three a day for three weeks.
meowmeowmans said…
What a wonderful exercise, Kim. I'm sure it would be hard for everybody. There are so many little things that we take for granted, so much so that we don't even think about them.

LOVE the story about Nicki in the window, and how it reminded you of Annie. That is just so, so beautiful.

HUGS!
John Bellen said…
New things for which to be grateful, for three weeks? I think the trouble is that the important things we're grateful for all the time, and the things that we're grateful for on a daily business are less significant. I would find it a difficult challenge.

But like you, I love seeing my beasts in the windows when I come home. Seeing them there always makes me smile, literally. Then they come to meet me when I enter the house. I'm very grateful for that.
wildcatwoods said…
It is hard to find 3 different things but it makes you really look at your life to see what details in it to be grateful for. I love seeing one of my cats int he window when I come home. This week I was happily surprised to see Georgie there!
Katie Isabella said…
I loved the story too. And I used to love seeing Admiral in the window, now Katie and see them at the door to greet me when I opened it.