Wordy Wednesday: First Kitty Love

Ann at Zoolatry had proposed that posts on Wednesdays in February reflect love, friendship, kindness, and caring.


Long-time readers no doubt will have seen these old pics of angel Chumley, my first adoptee and my Mentor. He did not get the best of me, as it was a very difficult time in my life and I was unknowingly clinically depressed. Everything I have done for my subsequent cat companions has been with him in mind, and I hope my karmic debt has be been paid now. 

Chumley was ever-forgiving, though, ever-loving, and was happiest in my arms. These pics are from September 28, 2006 (he passed unexpectedly on January 24, 2007).




He was such a handsome boy, the most photogenic of my four cats. It's been many years without him, but oh, the love never dies 💖

Comments

Oh so handsome a cat. If he would have known that you needed his love for many more years he would not have left you. He certainly was a big boy.
Kea said…
I looked at his pic for 6 weeks (on our local humane society website) before adopting him in April 2001. He was a bit scruffy and dirty, but SUCH a "teddy bear" that I never understood why he was passed over. He used to pose for the camera; he knew he was handsome! ♥
My Mind's Eye said…
Kim what an absolutely loving and LOVELY photo of you and Chumley. He was a most handsome man cat and only had eyes for you. The way your are looking at him and holding him is 10000% full of love and that chin scratch...I think you have a PhD in scratches!!! Milky-Way (our first cat) was also very tolerant of my lack of feline knowledge. As with Chumley, MW shared his feline knowledge freely.
Oh I cannot leave without telling you what beautiful head of hair you had/ and am sure still have. Love the color style
Hugs,
Cecilia
Dearest Kim,
LOVE your hair in this picture.
Oh, what a love bug your Chumley was—purrfectly happy on your lap and in your arms.
So glad that he came to you and found true love.
We too did not give our first kitty (that Pieter found between the raspberry bushes in January of 2001...) the love she deserved—but that is hind sight! All others later on became more of a family member and we felt guilty towards her rather short life. She got hit by a car in front of Pieter who was scattering ant killer on certain spots in the front lawn. Not even two years old... She was so loving and wanted to be near us all the time. Only in the final stage of her life did we let her sleep on our bed. https://mariettesbacktobasics.blogspot.com/2011/05/our-felines-sweet-spooky-i.html
https://mariettesbacktobasics.blogspot.com/2011/06/daylily-hemerocallis-white-tuxedo-sad.html
Yes, our kitties do shape us in many ways and they teach us a lot about TRUE LOVE + LOYALTY!
Big hugs and thanks for sharing.
Mariette & Co
Marvelous Marv said…
Kim! What a love bug Chumley was! The befores are always forgiving as they KNOW they are teaching you how to be better cat pawrents for those that come after. You ROCK! Purrs Marv and Barb
Kea said…
Thanks, Cecilia. RE: my hair, I stopped highlighting it years ago, so there's a lot more grey/white in it, and it's longer now too, just above my shoulders (grew it during COVID, as so many did).
Kea said…
Thanks, Mariette, Chum WAS a lovebug for sure!

I'm sorry for the sad end of life for your first cat; that would have been exceptionally difficult to deal with. ♥
Kea said…
I hope that's the case, Barb. Thanks! ♥
Maebeme said…
What a handsome boy! We never forget our fur babies, and thankfully it is often the happiest memories that stay with us.
ANGEL ABBYGRACE said…
Chumley is a handsome dude! He always will be, and you're right love never dies. What a great set of photos!!!!!
Zoolatry said…
I was always a bit sad that Chumley was "Angel Chumley" when I met you, and yet I still enjoyed
having his photos in my files, getting to know him through you ... and taking in his extraordinary
beauty. He was a special boy in many ways.
Chumley was a very handsome big boy. Those we have loved are never forgotten.
meowmeowmans said…
Chumley was so handsome, and we love the photo of him in your arms. I love that he taught you important love and life lessons for time you had with your other cats. XO
That was a wonderful lap full of love!
Poppy Q said…
Look at him feeling the love Kim.
John Bellen said…
They are a very loving and forgiving species, the domestic cat. Chumley is forever a fine example.
Katie Isabella said…
I loved this today and thank you for it. And Chumley, whom I never met on the blog I believe, was so handsome that he was a heart breaker! What a gorgeous cat. And your hair...my gosh, how beautiful!!
What an incredibly handsome boy he was. OMG you lost him sooooo soon :( That is awful